Sunday, November 11, 2012

More Advice for First Time Using Strap-on or Pegging

So, you about to get started with your first strap-on adventure.  You've been imaging the experience in your head while you wait for the dildo and harness to arrive in the mail.  Or, you've been talking about it all week as you wait for the weekend to arrive.  Finally the day arrives!  One partner get's harnessed up, the other is eagerly anticipating the first thrust of the dildo into his ass.  Then reality hits!  You've never done this before and as much as you've read about it and seen it in videos, it is completely different to be doing the actual act in real life. 

The single best piece of advice that I can give all you beginners to the Strap-on world is 'have realistic expectations.'  Someday strap-on sex is going to be a magical mind-blowing experience.  It might even be perfect the first time.  But the first few times are more likely to be a little bit of a learning experience.  Knowing how much lube you require, how quickly you can insert the dildo,  and how deep it can be thrusted at first versus once things are loosened up are all things you'll learn as you go.  This is not even to mention the little tricks you'll learn along the way.  Since everyone's body is different, there is no way to describe in exact detail what will work best for you and your pegging partner. 

But, if you can go into your first few experiences expecting it to be something that'll just get better with time, you are much more likely to have a positive first experience and it will likely lead to a lifelong passion for strap-on play. 

I'll be trying to add some more beginngers advice and roleplay ideas in the upcoming days.
Strappingly yours,

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