Friday, December 5, 2014

What is the best way to have a P-Spot Orgasm? Strap-on Sex / Pegging FAQ

What is the best way to have a P-Spot Orgasm? There isn't one set way to ensure you or your man will have a P-Spot orgasm without requiring stimulation to his penis. But, the way that seems to work best for my man is lots of pre-game stimulation. One way that almost ensures that he can have a P-spot orgasm is when I start him off with some oral sex while using my finger to massage his prostate. Then I make him fuck me in every position that we know. And this helps to really get him throbbing which also helps to wake up and prepare his p-spot for stimulation. Sometimes we'll do as much as an hour of pegging foreplay before I finally shove my dildo into him. And then the key is to make sure your dildo is rubbing up against his prostate. This usually only requires angling the dildo slight up. And he'll let you know when you are hitting the right spot. Either he'll be moaning or spraying cum all over himself. But remember, the fun part is getting there! So, even if you have to use your hand to make him cum, he'll be one happy man! Strappingly yours, Talulah

Another common question I get asked about Strap-on Sex / Pegging (FAQ Strap-on Sex)

Another common question I get asked about Strap-on Sex is if my man wants to have strap-on sex too often does that mean that he is becoming gay? The answer is a definite no to this question. As I've said before, if a man wants to have his ass penetrated by a woman wearing a dildo, he is in no way acting on homosexual desires. He would seek out a man if that was his desire. There should be no fear that wanting to have a woman perform strap-on penetration is in any way to a hidden homosexual desire. Nor should it be taken as a lack of desire for other types of sex. Sometimes my man will go a few weeks where he just can't get enough strap-on sex. And then suddenly, he'll be back in the mood for straight vaginal sex. Though, usually any good pegging session includes a decent amount of oral, vaginal and anal play. But, if you are a woman worrying that your man is either becoming gay or losing interest in you sexually, assure yourself that you are a key component in his fantasy and desire. He wants to see you dressed up in something sexy weilding your dildo like a beautiful dominatrix. For most men in a committed relationship, the excitment the comes from being penetrated anally with a strap-on is 50% the physical pleasure and 50% the enjoyment that comes from doing it with someone they are deeply attracted to. Strappingly Yours, Talulah

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Strap-on video with cum shot! Free Pegging Videos

Sorry for the lack of updates lately!  I wanted to share a video that has been turning me on and making me itch to peg my man!  Hope you all like it!

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Wednesday, November 6, 2013

More free strap-on videos! Awesome new pegging video I found!

I had to share this video!  I love finding strap-on videos with cum shots!  And this one has that and then some!  So, if you are like me and my man, and love super hot strapon videos, check this video out and go pick up my favorite strapon harness shown here!

Strapon Ripped euro guy gets ass fucked by his sexy girlfriend powered by YouPorn.

Friday, October 18, 2013

E-Mail Question and Response: First Time Help

Hello Pegaholic/Talulah! :),
your blog is basically the only one that has some meritorical knowledge about strap-on sex that I've found. Not to mention that stories are also great, and language isn't "dry", but it's just a plausible side-effect ;). Long story short - I'm 23 male, and I was into strap-on sex with me as "the girl" for a long time, and now I'll be able to experience it with my girlfriend. Considering many things, with most important was financial restrictions and lack of choice in my country, I've bought this strap-on  (currently waiting for the courier!:) ), I know that it's probably not the best choice but we'll have to work with it. My girlfriend want to do it probably as much as I do, so the psychological aspect is not my concern, but phisiological. It would be basically my first time (so good to be a virgin :D), I only played with her vibrator which is considerably smaller than that strap-on, but I had very much fun and practically no pain issues, even when I was jumping on bed with it in my anus, but I really want to do not make this first time of our strap-on sex something, that'll drive us away from that. I've read your advices but I still write a question. I don't know what's important, but I'm not the model shape, though my overweight isn't so bad, but I consider my ass a bit large. Is this can become an issue? Also, how should I position myself during the first time? I do not fear cumming on my face or anywhere else, I want to be as comfortable as I can :). What to make anus as clean as possible in home conditions? And of course, I am aware that first time will probably hurt, but can you assure me that with time it'll be only better? And, a strange question, but I feel it's important for me to ask it, because I know my girlfriend - could you lend any advice in giving her a blowjob to that strap-on?:) Because probably it'll be not only a virgin night for my ass, but for my mouth aswell! :).
I do not mind posting my e-mail on your blog, and I very much hope you're still online and my questions aren't too vulgar. Looking forward to hearing from you!

My Response:

Yes, strap-on sex gets easier with time. My man has no trouble taking a dildo that once seemed impossible to him. And he can do it without any preparation (though a good butt plug always makes things go smoother when used to warm up the area). But, it will definitely get easier. In the first place, you'll get used to the idea of how it works and relax. And relaxing is the major component in making it slide inside. Tensing up will make things much more difficult and possibly painful. So, have your girlfriend do everything she can to turn you on and keep you focused on the pleasure and less on the actual insertion.

Second, regarding sucking on the dildo, I think this can be lots of fun for a guy to be erotically 'humilated' if done correctly. But, I never advise putting a dildo into your mouth after it has been in your anus. This can truly be dangerous. So, use a flavored condom for this act! And just have her start gentle until you know what you can handle.

Basically, treat it like you would anything else you are new to. You wouldn't go into a gym and try to lift 500 pounds if you've never lifted weights before. You wouldn't run a marathon if you've never ran a mile. Same with this, just take it slow and enjoy learning how everything works and feels. You'll quickly figure out what positions work best, how quickly she can thrust, and how big a toy you prefer. Bigger isn't always better, but for some it is.

And in terms of being over-weight, I don't think this will be an issue. They make all types of dildoes and many can be quite long. So, first try different positions. Put lots of pillows under your back and angle your anus upwards. This usually give the most depth of penetration.

And feel free to ask any more questions your have.

Strappingly Yours,